After almost four decades behind the chair, I’ve come to believe something most people don’t really think about: hair has always meant more than beauty.
Across cultures and throughout history, hair has carried deep meaning. It has symbolized vitality, identity, strength, and life force. Long before we understood hormones, metabolism, or nervous systems, people instinctively recognized that hair reflected something about a person’s overall wellbeing. Healthy hair often signaled youth, fertility, and resilience. In many traditions, hair was treated with great care and intention, and it was sometimes only cut during important life transitions such as grief, spiritual commitment, or the beginning of a new chapter.
Hair wasn’t just something people styled. It was something that represented who they were.
And interestingly enough, that hasn’t really changed.
Even today, hair continues to carry emotional meaning in ways we don’t always talk about. After years in the salon, I’ve noticed something that happens again and again. A woman sits down in the chair and tells me she wants a big change. Sometimes it’s after a breakup. Sometimes it follows a difficult season, the end of a relationship, a career shift, menopause, or the feeling that life is moving into a new phase. She might say she just needs something different.
To someone outside the salon, it might look like it’s simply about a haircut. But anyone who has worked behind the chair long enough knows it’s rarely just about the hair.
Hair often becomes the physical marker of a life transition. Cutting it can feel like letting go of something old. Changing it can feel like stepping into a new version of yourself. The external change helps reflect the internal one that’s already underway. I’ve watched women leave the salon looking lighter, not just because their hair is shorter or styled differently, but because something inside them has shifted as well.
Hair has a way of holding meaning like that.
There’s also another layer to hair that I find just as fascinating, and that’s the biological side. Today we understand something that earlier cultures could only sense intuitively: hair reflects what’s happening inside the body. Hair growth depends on the body having enough resources to support it. Hormones, metabolic health, nutrient availability, blood flow, and nervous system regulation all play a role.
When the body is under prolonged stress, it reallocates its energy toward survival. Hair growth isn’t essential for survival, so it is often one of the first things the body pauses when resources need to be conserved. This is why many women begin noticing changes in their hair during times of stress, burnout, hormonal shifts, or major life transitions.
In many ways, hair has always been telling us the truth about what’s happening internally. For centuries people associated healthy hair with vitality and overall wellbeing. Now we understand that there is biology behind that intuition. When the body is thriving, hair often reflects that. When the body is under pressure, hair can reflect that too.
This is part of the reason why hair feels so personal. It sits at the intersection of beauty, identity, and biology. When women notice changes in their hair, it often becomes the moment they can’t ignore which get them to start searching for answers.
Rather than seeing the changes in hair as purely cosmetic, I see them as information as to what the body is trying to signal. With clients, I focus on helping women understand what their body might be needing by looking at deeper factors influencing the hair loss, shedding and thinning.
If you’re experiencing this, what might your body be needing you to pay closer attention to?



As a retired, 30 year, Natural Hair Stylist and Salon Owner, I concur! Thanks for sharing. 💙✨🪬
This is so true and something I’ve never even thought of! It makes me think of my own journey in motherhood and how much my hair changed under that physical stress and how others immediately knew I just had a baby. So insightful.